The Messenger

First United Methodist Church of Mexico

May 2011  

From the pastor…

 

"Now, I know you work on your sermons, but what do you do the rest of the week?"

This is a question that everyone who has ever been pastored, or is now being pastored, thinks about-sometimes even out loud. The old joke goes something like: “Well, pastor, since you only work one hour for one day each week, then what do you do with the rest of your time?” Pastor Elizabeth E. Hagan offers some perspective on this ages-old question in a recent article on her blog http://preacherontheplaza.wordpress.com  I want to share some of it with you, with a little editing:

“It's a timeless question that generations of pastors before me and beside me have been asked and have answered each in his or her own way; for there is no rule book about how a pastor structures his or her day. It's usually based both on the personality of the pastor and expectations of the congregation. It's a unique job with some deadlines (Sunday is always coming, for example), but it is also a job with a lot of unspecified responsibilities that can be attended to at a pace according to congregational needs. I always say that no day of the week is ever the same, and I never have reason to get bored!

But these are some of the "doing" tasks that my last week has included:

  • One-on-one meetings with parishioners going through times of crisis, including taking communion to a church member
  • One-on-one meetings with families or individuals interested in learning more about the church or becoming official members of the congregation
  • Follow-up conversations or emails/notes with/to visitors from Sunday morning
  • Planning meetings and phone conversations with church leaders about new initiatives for growth in congregational life
  • Attending to the administrative tasks of the church office by supervising other staff members, overseeing communication coming from the church office
  • Meeting with church members who come into the office to ask questions or say “hello”
  • Representing the church at community functions
  • Preparing for upcoming Bible studies
  • Planning for worship and editing the bulletin
  • Connecting with colleagues in the area for meals for shared learning and support
  • And, of course, preparing for sermons by researching, meditating, and sitting still long enough for God to have the opportunity to form my thoughts in the direction of the message the congregation most needs to hear.

And the list could go on. It also could record things that I wish I had more time for – additional parishioners I would like to have contacted, more study time I wished I had. When I think about what I do and don't, I always try to give myself grace to embrace the possibilities found in the next week.                                                                
     While I can't answer the "What does a pastor do?" question for all my colleagues, know this: there's so much more to the pastoral life than what you see on Sundays. Sundays are only the tip of the iceberg in terms of the focus tasks of our job.
     Yet, I wouldn't have it any other way! I get surprised daily by something new. I am and will continue to be grateful for this wonderful opportunity to put my energy and time into an organization with a great future because, in the end, church life is not about the pastor. It's always about the congregation. This is why we work so hard. Pastors are just the catalyst for helping congregations reach their potential as we are transformed together into the community of faith that God would have us be.
     Maybe, then, another good question for us to ask is: ‘What do congregation members do to enrich and support the lives of their faith community?’

After looking at Pastor Hagan’s comments on ministry, I have two thoughts I need to share with you here in Mexico UMC: This article was meant as explanation, not justification. I do work at this job, but probably not any harder than you do at your job! And, even on those days when I am swamped with details and dilemmas I remain awed by the responsibility and filled with gratitude that I am allowed to do this holy work of “pastoring”. Please hold OUR shared ministry in your prayers.

 

Blessings. Bill

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The Season Isn't Just Easter Sunday

     The Easter season isn't just Easter Sunday. It's 50 days long, and the last of those days is Pentecost, marking the birth of the Church and the coming of the Holy Spirit with power. In that time there are some special times to mark. In most years, the commemoration of certain saints falls in the Easter season : Catherine of Siena (April 29), Monnica (Augustine's mom, May 4), Gregory of Nazianzos (May 9), and the gospel author, St. Mark (April 25). In some places, Easter Monday is celebrated with dinners and parties and mirth. (Indeed, the whole Easter season is supposed to be one big feast and celebration because of the overflowing of resurrection joy. But over the years, the institutional church has been really good at putting a damper on such celebrations.) As the last weeks of the Easter season come, the attitude gets a bit more nervous. What's God going to do next? What am I to do next? Just before Pentecost, Christians mark Ascension Day, when Christ left us after His return, telling us to make disciples, and promising to return again to bring His Kingdom to full fruition. But there are still the nervous questions - you don't have what it takes, even to know what it means.

     The last day of the Resurrection season is Day 50, or Pentecost (Greek for 'fiftieth'). In older English traditions, it's called 'Whitsunday' because the traditional color for church clothing and decor on Pentecost is white. On that day the Holy Spirit arrives to be with us, and that Spirit sends a fresh wave of joy. On that day, the question of 'what next?' is answered with power - go prophesy, tell the gospel, heal, teach, serve, love. The Holy Spirit will bring the results. And they went and did it. If they didn't, I wouldn't have anything to tell you about.

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A FAMILY FUN DAY  

Sunday, May 22, 2011, 2 - 5 P.M.
At Yogi Bear's Jellystone Park
located at 601 County Route 16,
right here in Mexico!

RAIN or SHINE!
 

     Once again Ed and Barb Lighthall have extended an invitation to everyone in our church and community to join them for an afternoon of food, fun and fellowship at their well-known Jellystone Park facility.  The afternoon will begin with a pulled pork dinner, complete with a delicious pulled pork sandwich, salt potatoes, baked beans, coleslaw, brownies and beverage.  Tentatively, the meal will be served between 2:30 and 4pm.  The rest of the afternoon will feature a variety of fun-filled activities, not only for just the young folks, but the "young at heart".  Included will be wagon rides, water war games, miniature golf, horseshoes, face painting (compliments of our Youth Group), relay races, perhaps even a rousing game of volleyball!  And for those who might like to take the more sedate route, bring along your lawn chair to relax by the calming waters of the Little Salmon River.

     Advance sale tickets are a MUST for this event and will go on sale after Easter.  Prices are $10 for adults, $5 for children age 5-12, and Free for those under 5.  Ticket sales will end on FRIDAY, MAY 13, 2011, so don't delay!  Have a question? Contact Linda Fravor at 963-7118.

     All proceeds from this event will benefit our church's ASAP (Accessibility, Safety and Achievement Project) Committee and their elevator fund project.  See you at the park!

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In Preparation of the Fall Samaritan’s Purse Mission Work Trip…  

As Wayne and RoseAnn Myers make plans for the mission trip to Samaritan’s Purse in North Carolina in November, they are beginning to raise funds.  On Sunday, May 1, they will have food items available for donation in the fellowship hall during the coffee hour.  This would be a great time to ask Wayne and RoseAnn questions if you are interested in going on the shoebox ministry mission trip!

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A HEARTY THANKS 
from the UMM…
 

The United Methodist Men give a hearty thanks to all who supported their Italian Feast on Saturday, April 9.  The proceeds totaled $900.  This money will go towards the support of our youth attending church camp this summer.  Many thanks too, for the continued donation of returnable bottles and cans.  These refunds also go toward the church camp dollars. This year the men have agreed to fund 30% of the cost of the camp for each child, connected to our church, who attends the United Methodist Church Camps: Aldersgate or Casowasco.

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Fundraising for Summer Church Camp  

We are off to a good start selling Gertrude Hawk chocolates.  We have a few more boxes left.  Watch for sales at Big M!  Please return chocolate money from sales to me ASAP.  In addition, there will be a Little Ceasar's Pizza Kit sale which will start at the beginning of May.  You will have 2 weeks to sell and delivery will be a couple weeks after that.  The goal is to get 100 kits sold so we can get free shipping.  For those of you who have a camper please notify me, Melissa Maciejko at 963-1066, so we can get you on the list (so far I only know of 7 campers).  The Men's Club has also graciously offered to pay for 30% of the camp fee, so it is important we know who is going.  This year anyone who sells chocolate or pizza kits gets the profits for your camper, the more you sell the less you have to pay for camp!  There are many others within the church who are selling and those profits will go into the general fund, so there is a lot of profit to be divided up.  I hope to have the profits given out by June so you can use it to pay for camp. SELL! SELL! SELL! So our youth can attend camp. 

Thanks in advance for your support, Melissa Maciejko

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On Memorial Day…  

And I'm proud to be an American,
where at least I know I'm free.
And I won't forget the men who died,
who gave that right to me.

~Lee Greenwood, Singer

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IMPORTANT DATES  

May 1 -  Haiti Missionary to Speak 
        Jr. High Youth Group, 6:30pm

May 1 -  Outreach Committee Meeting following coffee hour

May 2 -  Friendship Circle Meeting at     Sue Morton’s -7PM

May 7 -  Celebrity Chef’s Cooking Club 5PM in church kitchen

May 8 -  Mother’s Day, Baby Bottle Distribution.

               Pulse, 6pm

May 10 - Deadline for June newsletter.

May 12 – Angelfood orders due.

May 13 - Last day to buy tickets for Family Fun Day

May 14 - Attic Treasure Sale fellowship hall 9-3PM

May 15 – Jr High Youth Group, 6:30pm

May 20 – Women Within, 7pm

May 21 – Angelfood Delivery

May 22 - Family Fun Day, Jellystone Park 2-5PM

     Senior High Youth Group to meet at Jellystone at 2pm

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Thank You, Thank You To...

 

~ All who helped or donated to the UMM’s Annual Italian Feast on April 9.

~ All who donated food and/or helped at the celebration of life luncheon for Marjorie DeLong

~ All who donated or served at the Salvation Army Lunch on April 30th

~ the Friendship Circle members for purchasing new cutting boards for the church kitchen.

~ Lori Granger and her daughter Mary Bromfield for teaching a self-defense class for the Women Within group on Friday, April 15. 

~ All who contribute in time or donations to Monday’s Meals.

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CONGRATULATIONS TO…  

Sarah and Justin Johnson

On the Birth of:  

Josephine Bea Johnson  

April 11, 2011

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ANNUAL ATTIC TREASURE SALE!!  

The “church mouse” has seen some very interesting items that will be for sale at the Attic Treasure Sale on Saturday, May 14, from 9am – 3pm.  The treasures include: dishes, board games, cookbooks, candles, home decorations, vintage clothing, jewelry, sporting goods, toys, and more.  Come and browse the fellowship hall filled with treasures!  It is fun and all proceeds from the sale will be used by the Outreach Committee for various mission work.  (Note:  Donations of treasures accepted until Friday afternoon – May 13.)

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Our Sympathy To…  

The Family of: Marjorie DeLong
who passed on:
Tuesday, April 21, 2011

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Celebrating Mothers….  

Ladies of the Church,

    In the celebration of mothers, all mothers - including mothers who gave their hearts in the mothering of other’s children either part-time or full-time, mother’s too ill to mother their own children, mothers who have passed on to heaven, and mothers of other eras, let us celebrate mothers by wearing hats to church on Mother’s Day, May 8. 

    If you are in need of a hat, please contact the church office – 963-3066.  

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VISITATION TEAM SCHEDULING  

A brief meeting of the Visitation Team will take place after the worship service on May 15.  Scheduling for visiting members in hospitals, nursing homes, or those who are home-bound for the months of May, June, July, and August will take place at the meeting.  Call Sue Morton (963-3566) if you are interested in becoming a “visitor from our church” and if you are unable to attend this brief meeting.  Thank you

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Recipe Corner:  This month’s recipe for Hawaiian Wedding Cake comes to us from Suzie Martin.  She baked this delicious cake and donated it to the UMMen’s Italian Feast in April.

Hawaiian Wedding Cake  

1 1/2 cup sugar                                                                                           
2 eggs                                                                          1 cup chopped walnuts
20 ounce can crushed pineapple (do not drain)          1 ½ tsp. baking soda
2 cups flour                                                                 1 cup coconut

Mix all ingredients together with spoon (not mixer).  Do not over mix.  Bake at oven temperature of 350 degrees for 35 – 40 minutes.  You may add a whipped cream dollop to each slice of cake.

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TOO EARLY TO THINK SHOE BOXES??

By Madelyn Schmidt  

      The shoe box collection project is not until October-November and we sure don't want to rush spring and summer, but it's never too early to keep your eyes open for items to tuck away till then.

      After Christmas, gloves and hats are often 75% off and after some holidays, small toys and stuffed animals are on sale.  In August, school supplies will be a bargain, such as crayons for 25 cents a box. 

     Recently two church members went to a meeting where we heard stories from Patti Jennings, a regional shoe box worker, who has gone on several mission trips to help distribute the boxes.  She told several stories, such as the girl who was chosen to receive a box, but her sister was not.  when the girl opened her box, there was two of everything, one for her and one for the sister.  A boy in a hospital had had his right leg amputed.  In his box was a pair of sneakers.  In the next bed was a boy who had had his left leg amputed.  In his box was a pair of socks.  The boys traded a shoe for a sock!

     One girl's favorite color was pink, her box contained everything pink.  Another child had limited vision.  In his box was a magnifying glass.

     So fill your box as you wish and God will see that it goes to the right child.

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THE ELEVATOR WILL BE GOING UP!!!!  

     Recently representatives from the Woodford Brothers of Skaneateles met with some of the trustees, John Aldrich, Pastor Bill and others to discuss the plans for the lift or elevet for the church, which will go from the fellowship hall to the sanctuary level and on to the upstairs.  The preliminary steps have begun.  The ASAP balance is over $41,000, thanks to the generosity of so many and fund raisers, with money from the Buck bequest being used to complete the project. 

    Because there are so many activities in our church, many meetings have to be held in rooms upstairs.  The elevator will be of great assistance to those who find the stairs difficult.  Thanks to all. 

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BASIC SELF DEFENSE CLASSES

Our church is offering two

Self-Defense Classes

Saturday, May 14, and 
Saturday, May 21. 
12-1:30pm at 
Oswego County Credit Union on
Scenic Avenue, Mexico
Open to all women from 
teens to seniors.
Charge is $5 per class.

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Monday’s Meal Update  

Thanks to the many cooks, servers, dishwashers, contributors, and attendees, the Monday’s Meal ministry continues to simmer right along.  Every Monday, excepting major holidays, soup is served from 11:30am – 12:30pm.  There is no charge and everyone is invited in for a wholesome lunch and a good visit.  The cooks for the month of May are:

May 2:  Maggie Palmer and Steve Maciejko                            May 9:  Lori Behling and Shawne Helker

May 16:  Marilyn Marks and Connie Main                             May 23:  Kelly Freihofer and Donna Mowry

                        May 30:  Closed in honor and in memory of our military men and women.

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Need to Contact our Church??

Our Church Phone Number:  315-963-3066

Our Church Website:  www.mex1umc.com

Our Church email address:  fumcmexico@verizon.net

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